Patient
My husband came in for a routine MRI on 10/31. An aortic hemorrhage was found. Almost 11cm in size, concern starts at 3-6. He was told he would need to be transferred to St Luke's for emergency surgery. Dr Rufer convinced my husband to stay here as they would specially order a part (graft) customized for his body. I joked and said he should have ordered it next day through Amazon. Dr Rufer said my husband should not leave and stay the weekend until the part was delivered for Monday surgery. Said no real risk and that he would be leaving the hospital Tuesday. My husband has been taken to the OR a total of 4 times and was intubated (life support) for 2 days. It is now Sunday, and not only have I learned (from his college who assisted in the surgery) no such part was ever ordered but they killed his left kidney, damaged his right kidney, and now his bowels have an obstruction. Dr Rufer LIED to us and has not been seen since. The only communication I have had with him was last Tuesday when he screamed at me over the phone for questioning him with newly discovered information obtained by staff and the Nephrologist. Dr Rufer and Dr LeSage's egos have left my husband forever damaged with no understanding when he might be allowed to leave. They put ego ahead of the patient and were clearly not equipped or skilled enough to handle such a case. Staff has been trying to gaslight me. So much more to report, but Google allows only so many characters I am terrified. We will be celebrating 25 years of marriage next month, God willing. Please pray. Nursing staff have given stellar care, hence the star.